Can you tell these are two different kids? Neither can my relatives.
Isn't it funny how everything we think
we know and all of our parenting strategies with our firstborn go out
the window with a second baby? I'm sure I've mentioned it before, but
we have done things WAY differently with Little Bit than we did with
Big Sister.
Myka started sleeping in her own room
when she was two months old. (Yes, my kids really are that good of
sleepers!) Ripley is 10 months old and still sleeps in our bedroom.
(To be fair, that's mostly out of necessity.) Breastfeeding didn't
work out for me and Myka. I was lucky to at least get to almost 6
months with Ripley. I'm not as opposed to formula and disposable
diapers as I was. (I've accepted formula as a necessary evil because
my boobs suck and we still use cloth diapers, like, 98% of the time,
but just sayin'.) One of the biggest things that sticks out in my
mind is how we introduced solid foods.
With Myka, I was very much on the
“make your own baby food” train and made large stashes at a time.
It was tedious and usually took up a large portion of the day, but I
didn't have to worry about it again for months. I can't remember
exactly when she started getting teeth, but it seems like it was
later than Ripley, so I don't think she had any real solid food until
after she was a year old? Sounds crazy, right?
I have taken a MUCH more laid back
approach with Ripley. I wasn't too concerned about introducing solid
foods at all. She'd eat eventually, right? I did make homemade baby
food for her at first, but not in huge batches. She's already eating
“real people food” and, again, she's not even a year old yet.
(She also has 4 teeth, though. ;) )
I have to admit, I didn't understand
what the big hubub was about baby-led weaning, that seemed to be
growing more popular amongst crunchy parents, around the time Myka
was eating baby food. To me, it didn't sound safe. Wouldn't their
kids choke? But again, things change and I decided to give it a try
with my new guinea pig. And honestly? It's so much easier! But, I'm
not here to sway you your opinion. Let's look at some pros and cons
of both. (At least from my perspective, for what it's worth. ;) )
Pros of Baby Food
*Can buy at the
store (convenience)
*Can make
yourself (cheaper and no weird preservatives)
*Can introduce
it sooner
*Don't have to
worry about choking as much
Cons of Baby Food
*Some have weird
preservatives
*Can be pricey
*More dishes to
wash
*Greater need
for a high chair
Pros of Baby-Led Weaning
*No need to make
or buy special food
*Cheaper (for
above reasons)
*More likely to
be less picky eaters (speculation on my part, but I think I have read
this somewhere too)
*Introduced to a
wider variety of foods and flavors
*Not as great a
need for a high chair
*Work on fine
motor control if/when you let them feed themselves
Cons of Baby-Led Weaning
*Choking hazard
is greater
*May have a baby
that loves eating anything and everything ;)
Ok, so I feel
like I'm dropping the ball on the cons of baby-led weaning, but
that's really, honestly all I can think of right now. What about you?
Did you feed your kids differently as babies? Have you noticed any
difference in their food preferences as they've gotten older? Is one
a pickier eater than the other? Let me know in the comments below!
My daughter has done baby led weaning for both her girls and I think it's wonderful. And I think they do have a much wider palate than other babies/children their age.
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